Tag: mod post
I messed up my queue schedule so that’s why everything was posted all at once I’m sorry for it but still
@all the anon hate in my inbox rn
Do y’all have nothing to do than harass people doing nothing wrong?? Do you want me to point y’all to better stuff you can do with your time? Like volunteer at a shelter or help someone in a lower grade with their school work??
Reblogging because I see ya salty anons in my inbox.
Sorry for not posting today, had no spoons to add to the queue today. I’ll try to do it for tomorrow!
This is queued so this is going to be posted later than I wrote it, but while writing our names on Christmas stockings since Christmas is a major family tradition, my mom actually put down my name and told me it was the “best she could do for her son” and it made me so happy and I wish all of my followers can have a pure moment like that!
Just a heads up but I’m moving the queue to later at night (my time that is) for tonight only since I know some people might be busy with holiday traditions
mini update but the carrd has been split into multiple carrds for accessibility which are all found in the description
Personal thoughts
Okay so as I’ve been running this tumblr and filling out requests, I felt a lot more disconnected with why I started this blog, to help raise awareness for neo labels like xenogenders, neurogenders, kingenders, alterous attractions, neurorientations, aesthetic attractions, neopronouns, nounself pronouns, queerplatonic relationships, and as long as the list can go for these types of identities. While I still get some requests for those things, I’ve been feeling very disconnected from that through requests.
I will finish the requests I have in my inbox, but will start taking back what I can and can not do in requests. I have updated this blogs carrd (found in the description) to match my new rule updates on requests. These changes are mostly that while I do accept requests for “common” identities like generalized nonbinary, transmasc/transfem, genderfluid, ect, I wish that they would at least be paired with a neo label. The rules page does include examples of what is okay and what is not, but if you have a question about if your request is okay, feel free to ask me! I am in no way trying to push away people who do not experience a neo label! As for pronoun aesthetics, if they are pronoun only, I do request that the pronoun set(s) used would be at least one neopronoun or nounself. Validations will remain the same, however, I strongly encourage a theme to be paired with it so I can make each validation more unique to you.
A second change is that for validations and aesthetics, to please give me a full set unless it is he/him, she/her, they/them, or it/its. I really don’t want to mix sets up because I have done that on multiple occasions and would wish to avoid it.
I will go through and finish my last handful of requests people have already submitted and those will be in the queue for tomorrow night.
I would like to repeat I am in no way trying to make people feel unwelcome, but I also want to connect this blog back more to why I created it in the first place.
TL;DR – Aesthetic requests are being closed down to neo labels and neopronouns, please try to give a theme with validation requests, and give full pronoun sets for any request.
So I just had to break up with a close qpp because I just found out he was transphobic as hell. I found out when I decided to come out as nb to him.
While it hurts and sucks, let me just say that to anyone who wanted a partner, regardless of if it’s romantic, platonic, alterous, queer platonic, ect., you deserve to have a partner that accepts you and will always love you.
I’m also just gonna say that you’re all valid no matter what anyone says.
Hey folks!
I am going to split some of my requests to tomorrow’s queue. There will be a few more posted today so if you haven’t seen yours yet, it will be in tomorrow! <strike>and I’m still open for more requests so don’t worry</strike>
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