hi! so I’ve identified as aro for a while, but I was looking for something that… fit a lil better. basically, the thought of being in an actual relationship repulses me, but I enjoy romance itself from afar. like if a book I’m not really into features a romance, I can enjoy but if I’m more into it I’ll be super repulsed by it. and I’ll get “crushes” on ppl where I can imagine in my fantasies us being together, but the thought of us ACTUALLY being together repulses me, if that makes sense? thx!

Hi! I couldn’t find a single term, but this seems more like you’re apothiromantic. You can also identify as limnoromantic, but I would also reccomend checking out other attractions since I feel like you’re describing more of a qpr or Alterous attraction! But I hope this helps!
-Admin Opal

hi! is there a term specifically for when you feel heavily connected to a video game? for instance, i’m connected to the game ‘minecraft’? i might test out the pronouns craft/crafts/craftself. i know this sounds stupid but this is the only place i feel safe and i really feel as if i identify with minecraft! thank you so much!

There is gamegender, which can work for you!! It’s a gender that changes when playing games!
You’re fine and I am glad you feel safe here!
-Admin Opal