The flags confuse me sometimes, too, anon, but sometimes you just gotta either ignore the flag or make a redesign of the flag if you really vibe with a particular term. Or ignore all the flags, if you’re colorblind. X)
Sure thing! My advice is to take their gender into account when writing the character.
Some xenogenders have pronouns associated with the gender, but that doesn’t necessarily mean that the character has to use those pronouns. Depending on the setting/time period, you could maybe have them wear buttons with their pronouns and gender flag(s) on them! They can also use more than one set of pronouns!
Their presentation does not have to be a certain way, they don’t have to wear certain clothes, or have a certain hairstyle, because there is no one way to look the way xenogender people look! Each and every person looks different, and presents differently.
After a suicide attempt and some crying, I’ve decided it is in my best interest to take a hiatus from the blog, community, and current discourse for a short while. I am still able to be reached by my personal blog and discord, but I will be absent from here for a week or two.
Klimigender – When your gender can be described as being a vague temperature (e.g. freezing, cold, cool, warm, hot, burning, etc.) This is an umbrella term.
Vresgender – When your gender is freezing. Subset of Klimigender.
Cealgender – When your gender is cold. Subset of Klimigender.
Kuogender – When your gender is cool (temperature-wise). Subset of Klimigender.
Virmgender – When your gender is warm. Subset of Klimigender.
Heigender – When your gender is hot. Subset of Klimigender.
Beorgender – When your gender is burning (temperature-wise). Subset of Klimigender.
Friugender – When your gender is a temperature you find pleasant. Can be applied in front of the temperature (e.g. Friuvirmgender, Friulaehgender, etc.) Subset of Klimigender.
Agigender – When your gender is a temperature you find unpleasant. Can be applied in front of the temperature (e.g. Agivresgender, Agikaugender, etc.) Subset of Klimigender.
Laehgender/Laehfluid – When your gender is fluid between the lower temperatures (e.g. cool, cold, freezing, etc.) Subset of Klimifluid.
Kaugender/Kaufluid – When your gender is fluid between the higher temperatures (e.g. warm, hot, burning, etc.) Subset of Klimifluid.
Klimifluid – When your gender is fluid between vague temperatures (e.g. freezing, cold, cool, warm, hot, burning, etc.) Subset of Klimigender, also functions as an umbrella term.
Deragender – When your gender can be described as being a specific temperature, to the point that you can say what degree it is. (e.g. -9°C, 157°F, etc.) Subset of Klimigender.
Derafluid – When your gender is fluid between different specific temperatures, to the point where you know what degree it is, but it changes. (e.g. -24°F to 73°F, 5°C to 69°C, etc.) Subset of Deragender.
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Rencgender – A gender that confuses and infuriates the person whose gender it is because of their BPD, causing the person to impulsively collect labels trying to find one that fits.
Exclusive to people with BPD. Yes, the static on the three stripes is intentional.
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Renc(sexual, romantic, oriented, etc.) – An orientation that confuses and infuriates the person whose orientation it is because of their BPD, causing the person to impulsively collect labels trying to find one that fits.
Again, exclusive to people with BPD. The static is again intentional. This flag covers all Renc- people, but is more specifically for renc-orientated people.
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