actually, now that I’m thinking abt it, any tips on reworking a -gender suffix term into a better one? I’ve avoided so many terms bc of that specific issue, but can’t find any good substitutes. so why not make one, yknow?

queer–buccaneer:

this is a good question and tbh probably deserves its own post, so im gonna visit it in more detail as part of my series on Coining Words Good, but so i dont leave u hanging, the number one piece of advice i have here is honestly just, try just chopping the -gender off and seeing how that feels? it’s what i do half the time

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instead of saying, eg ‘i am rahugender’ you can say ‘i am (a) rahu’. ‘sylvegender’ can be ‘sylve’, ‘reusgender’ can be ‘reus’, etc. even ones with the ‘gender’ part in the middle or at the start can be treated like this! how about calling urself ‘panfae’ or ‘panfaun’? or just saying that your gender is ‘vast’ or ‘bruised’? things don’t always have to be nouns!

but, if that sounds a bit clunky, you can always play around with the sounds a bit? since a lot of the prefixes people like to use for genders are latin, a nice way to find an alternative is to look up the word on something like wiktionary and see what other forms it conjugates to. eg if you want to describe yourself as being firmagender but ‘firma’ on its own sounds a little lacking, look at all these other choices!

maybe calling urself a firmus or a firme or even a firmarum feels better?

and honestly, if ur gender is xeno or vide in nature, you can just directly insert the thing it’s inspired by / related to? there’s no shame in saying ‘my gender is the sun’ or ‘my gender is the cheshire cat’ or ‘my gender is blue’ or whatever. people have done this pretty much since gender variance has been a thing! i even reblogged a post abt it once!

yourmemehell:

Alright, no bullshit or jokes here. I’m starving and if I dont make 500 by the end of this week, I’m going to end up on the streets. I have a job that pays minimum wage with some hours, but my mom was fired and her new job doesn’t start paying for a month.
At this point, we can barely afford basic needs and I’m left starving at 6 hour work shifts with no breaks because we have to pay for our meals and do not get to keep unwanted food.
To help me avoid getting kicked out and likely dead,
Here is my paypal: https://www.paypal.me/kyberr
Here is a link to my commission prices, which are cheap at 3-30usd for anything of a sketch to a full reference sheet: https://www.furaffinity.net/commissions/memeyeensanddeath/
I also do pay what you want tarot readings!
And if you can not donate or buy from me, reblogging and boosting helps a whole lot!

Reblogging this also since it’s gaining some traction still, but please help

-Admin Opal

yourmemehell:

yourmemehell:

I thought I could live easily for maybe a month???

No, instead, I find out only today that I am being slammed with 900 worth in bills due by Dec 2…

My mother had been fired twice and still has no job and I am stuck with not enough hours recently due to sickness (which work refuses to let me use my sick pto for)

So I still am shelling my life and soul out over here and need help again.

My paypal is: https://www.paypal.me/kyberr

I can also do pay what you want tarot commissions and on paper traditional commissions, but nothing digital due to the fact my computer is not working at all.

I am also willing to do most other forms of service for money, so feel free to message me and ask because I am straight up desperate at this point.

I hate asking for help, but I am struggling and I can’t afford it at all.

For those who wonder, I am utilizing food banks and I am trying to see if I can do a survey website, but please help, reblog, boost, ect.

ok, this officially is creeping back into life threatening territory.

I can barely afford my rent or car insurnce. I am going to be fucking kicked out. I have NO WHERE TO GO and will actually die on the streets.

I can not stress how serious this is. Please help me.

Ok I found out I’m seriously fucked over. Please. I’m a minimum wage worker supporting 3 people on barely 250 a week. I need help. Please help me or I’m going to lose my apartment and my car.

-Admin Opal

chaoticmyth:

Neopronouns are amazing. Like making new pronouns up is just a fantastic f*** you to the people who say you can’t use singular they; they allow for unique self-expression for nonbinary and gnc identities, and show how language is continually evolving.

newtingeyser:

this is a friendly reminder to people who don’t like otherkin that:

  • a kintype is not a gender
  • there are trans otherkin
  • trans otherkin can have their gender and kintype effect each other
  • the otherkin community has been around since the 70s. it isn’t a “tumblr thing”
  • being otherkin can be a spiritual belief
  • it can also be a coping mechanism for neurodivergent people!
  • here is the wiki page

thank you goodbye

xenopresentation:

Xenogender Presentation: Feline Presentation (Mixed Styles) (Part 1/?)

Puffball  ||  Pin  ||  Charm

Meow 2  ||  Cat like hoodie  ||  Meow

Paw Socks  ||  

Ears Beanie   ||  Light up ears

Accessories

Feline was a difficult one to pin down, mostly because it can be a very broad style. Mischievious? Sure! Soft, fluffy, warm? Absolutely! Puns? You want fucking puns? Done.

This post is a what I considered a mix of a lot of styles. It has some soft aspects, some puns, and some jokes. More posts will be made in the future.

The indoor only cat charm was just funny to me tbh, and I might buy it for myself. The puffball is, like i said, a softer aspect of the possible style. The cat person pin is another joke ;3 The ears are really cool and apparently light up and stuff, which can help give them a ‘use’ if you need one to wear them.

Clothing

The socks are fucking adorable and I’ve wanted some for a long time. The beanie also fits the soft + quirky aesthetic.

The shirts are either puns, relateable, or cool! It’s a very simple yet mixed aesthetic that makes it really easy to incorporate into every day life and any occasion.